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The regret of failing my ideal self
I’ve always looked for advice from people who are wiser and further along in life — people who have already learned the lessons I haven’t learned yet.
Then I started thinking: one day, I’ll be that older person looking back. I’ll have my own list of things I wish I had done differently. So why wait until then to figure out what those things are?
This community is about making those choices now.
It’s about continuing your education, learning the skills you’ve always wanted to learn, taking opportunities instead of automatically playing it safe, pursuing the career or idea you keep thinking about, taking care of your health, pursuing love when you find it, and actively becoming the person you actually want to be.
Especially after 40, there is still so much life ahead—but “someday” can’t be the answer forever.
The goal is simple: make choices today that your older self will be grateful you made.
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By Alona
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